If you are reading this post and you have this mentality that because you have suffered then you definitely will be rich soon then I’m glad to announce to you that you are totally wrong.
You can suffer yesterday, today and tomorrow if you don’t have the right mentality and the driving force to succeed, you won’t make money.
And yeah, there are people who look to other people’s pocket like “let me go and see lagbaja, I’m sure something will drop”
That’s very ridiculous and embarrassing.
You should make your own Money, for your own sake.
You can’t afford to be a liability to another person! I mean no one is going to be able to sponsor you forever.
- Imagine always having to call your parents or siblings and friends every time you need to buy things, they’ll pick a race one day one day and you don’t want that. Imagine you have to get some things for yourself like clothes, books and all and you actually got them like you have the money to provide for you…Bliss no dey pass like this… so dears, you have to make money for yourself.
- Another thing is that having your own money preserves your self respect.
It helps you avoid embarrassment. For instance you need to get some things done and you think of calling your friend to quickly ask for an urgent 2k. That’s when they’ll remember you still have one 15k you haven’t returned and why shouldn’t they remember??? They will, it’s their money. And because you’ve refused to pay your last debt, you’re most likely not going to get another one!
Don’t be that person people can’t trust with their money because they know you’ll never return it. When you have your own money, people’s eyes will not see orisirisi in your body.
- Another reason to have your own money is to be able to afford the lifestyle that suits you.
Everyone loves luxury, everyone wants to live a soft life, spa today, new shoes and PS 5 tomorrow but you don’t have the money to fund yourself, all these will only happen when you’re sleeping, in your dream. I cannot imagine that I’m planning on going for vacation next holiday and I’m still struggling to eat three square meals just two weeks into the holiday. Even though you want to do things you really love to do, not having your own money for these things will frustrate you. This sometimes can even drive people to start doing things they’re not supposed to do just because they can’t afford their lifestyle, you definitely don’t want to be in this right???
Having your own money makes people have a positive view of you and will earn you respect.
I tell you, there’s a different kind of respect that comes with having money. That part where everyone respects and won’t bring nonsense to your table, it always feels good. The meeting can’t start without you in sit!! .
You go out to places and people are trying to be on your good side because of the influence you bring and how things happen because of you.
Having your own money will provide you the opportunity to save.
The good thing about saving is, your mind is at rest knowing you have one money somewhere. When you have your own money, you’ll be able to save for future purposes. Your future is fit financially. You can’t save with another person’s money. So to secure a financially fit future , you have to make your own money.